Change. Evolution.

This FYP thingy is giving me flu, a cough, a sleeping disorder / deficit. Basically a haywire life for the moment. Cepatlaa habisss. Deng. Thus, another post to write.

Lately, I’ve been blog hopping to blog / blogs that love defining people. Like how these people from these certain places dress up, act, hangout places etc. I’m wondering, are we that easily be categorized? Maybe as a general, we fit under a category, but appearances and behaviours are complicated thing to judge. Anyway, we are entitled to write anything on our blog, so here are my opinions on the matter.

From my personal observation, people evolve. Or change. It can be either forward, or backward, up to personal interpretation. But people like to generalize these changes. Example:

1. From free hair to wearing tudung (or vice versa)
2. From liberal to conservative (or vice versa)
3. From a playboy to one lady man (or vice versa), etc2

I’m sure the former will receive praises and people will think it is definitely for better. How sure are we they will turn out good? A tudung wearer might have sex or have worse attitude than a free hair girl. A too conservative person can be too radical it can be obsessive / harmful. A one lady man can turn out to be under queen control and can’t make decision on his own. There are probabilities of these ‘better’ changes turn out to be the opposite of what people generally think. I’m not saying the latter is better, but the possibility of them to be better is also there. People might say, where’s the righteousness in showing your aurah, being too liberal or a playboy? I will say humans are not perfect. You are not. So do I. As long as there are rooms for improvements, I’m sure there can be changes for better. People learn from their mistakes. With age comes wisdom, says the philosopher. I will try not to be too judgemental and I hope other people won’t too.

“All changes are created in a moment, with a simple choice.” –R.T Gorham-